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1. Marriage is constant work.

婚姻是一种持续的工作。

Never stop dating. Always pay attention. Keep learning, sharing, laughing with your partner. Treat yourself well and treat your partner even better. Never neglect your looks or words or actions—or your thoughts. Keep working hard to be a better person, lover, partner, chef, bartender and caretaker, janitor and driver. Seek truth, not to be right.

不用停止约会。要一直注重这点。保持和你的伴侣一起学习、分享、大笑。好好对待自己，要更好地对待你的伴侣。永远不要忽视你的外表或言语或行动—或你的想法。努力成为一个更好的人、爱人、伴侣、厨师、服务员和监护人、管理员和司机。寻求真理，但不要做一个纠错的人。

Make sure to listen carefully—the first time, every time. Just get stuff done ASAP, on time. Keep your mouth shut; don’t moan and complain. Be helpful, be encouraging. Get your chores done each day, don’t wait. Know when the storm is coming; it will pass. The morning’s wiser than the night. Resolve your argument before you sleep (apologize!)

一定要仔细倾听—次，以及每一次。把事情尽快地、及时地完成。闭上你的嘴；不要呻吟和抱怨。做个有助于别人的人，给予别人鼓励的人。每天做完你的家务，不要等待。知道什么时候风暴会来临；它会过去。早上比晚上更聪明。在睡觉之前解决你们的争论（道歉！）

2. Argument is just not worth it

争论并不值得

Most of the time, the argument is just not worth it. Pick your battles carefully.

大多数时间里，争论并不值得。慎重挑选好你们的冲突。

Being right will make you proud one moment, but will piss her off. Bad move. Be smart.

做个纠错的人会让你在某刻感到骄傲，但会惹她升起。做个聪明的人。

3. Laugh hard

大声笑

If you can’t laugh, you’ll die. And if you can, you’ll manage through mundane, profane, the painful and the thrilling.

如果你不能大笑，你会死的。如果你能，你会成功渡过世俗、不敬、痛苦和刺激。

4. How’s life? How is your wife?

生活是怎样的？你的生活是怎样的？

One and the same. That’s one cliche both sexes can agree on.

完全就是一回事。同一个。这是无论男女都会同意的老生常谈 。

5. It can be like riding on a roller coaster

就像坐过山车一样

How’s married life? The answer can be different any given day. Today is glorious, tomorrow awful. And so what?

结婚后的生活是怎样的？答案可能每天都有所不同。今天很美好，而明天则很糟糕。那又如何呢？

6. Never compare your couple to any other

永远不要拿你的伴侣去和别人比较

This always leads to disaster. Never compare your house, your relationship, your sex life, your wealth or anything else to anyone else’s. That’s the first step to being consumed by fear, jealousy, envy and all the other negative emotions.

这总会导致灾难。永远不要和别人比较你的房子、你的关系、你的性生活、你的财富或其它任何东西。那是被恐惧、嫉妒、嫉恨和所有其它负面情绪支配的步。

Live your own life. Bring out the best in each other and work on your own couple, per your own standards and expectations.

过自己的生活。找出彼此较好的地方，致力于你们夫妻自己的关系，依照你自己的标准和期待。

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